[Several emails and phone calls, in recent days, from MKs who are hurting prompted this article. But pain is a universal thing, and if you or someone you love are suffering, MK or not, perhaps this can offer some hope and guidance.] We sat in a large, empty room in the basement of a pediatric […]

In 2008, when I was facing a daunting medical battle, I began to watch a little show called The Bachelor. I didn’t really question its content and focused on its entertainment value. It afforded me a bit of an escape from my torturous reality and I considered the insipid saga of romantic pursuit to be fairly […]

“If you came back, you wanted to leave again. If you went away, you longed to come back. Wherever you were, you could hear the call of the herdsman’s horn far away in the hills. You had one home out there and one over here and yet you were an alien in both places. Your […]

[Cross-posted on this Remembrance Day on The Girl Who Wore Freedom, a documentary coming in 2019. See end of post to learn how you can be a part of it.] It’s the sound of their boots I heard first, as I stood among pastures on the outskirts of Carentan. Not the ordered, rhythmic thumps of […]

[Based on the chapter I was asked to write for an upcoming collaborative book: Pipeline – Engaging the Church in Missionary Mobilization. Follow me on Facebook for release and purchase information.] Julianne is a Missionaries’ Kid from Italy. Growing up on the Old Continent, she trained for ten years as a classical dancer, eventually earning […]

This article comes to you…in video format! Filmed on the grounds of one of my foreign homes, it addresses the complicated concept of “belonging” for a people group that simultaneously craves it and rejects it. What are the three most common responses I’ve seen to unbelonging? And which do I recommend when I speak to […]

  Of the adult MKs I speak with, a majority assert that the hardest transition they’ve had to navigate is the one between high school and college in their passport culture. They’re right. It can be hard. But I sometimes wonder if our attempts to prepare MKs for that leap might actually increase some of […]

Hypocrisy is a topic we don’t like to address in the missionary community—perhaps because of the unspoken reality that a little bit of deception has sometimes proven to be good for ministry. (I’m not condoning it, just acknowledging it.) But where does “putting your best foot forward” end and “misrepresenting yourself” begin? The line is […]

[This is a very personal post, a follow-up to “Saying Mastectomy Out Loud,” which I published a year ago.] One year ago today, I awoke in the hospital and listened dumbfounded as my surgeon informed me that my preventative mastectomy had revealed three malignant tumors. Through the fog of sedation, I heard words like “cancer” […]

    I stood in front of my Christmas tree back in 2009 and sighed. It was the epitome of a single girl’s tree, adorned with matching ornaments and a fetching red ribbon. It was small, it was classy, it was shiny…and about as festive as a Tupperware container. Perhaps it was the battle with […]